About stephanweber2012

I am a motivational coach, facilitator and consultant. My mission is to help individuals, teams and organisations achieve their full potential through the creation of awareness and responsibility in their roles as parents, friends, partners or colleagues

Words of Wisdom: Behaviour

People who are hurting, hurt people; and are easily hurt by people

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The Law of Attraction

On Tuesday I had the opportunity to meet and learn from JT FOXX (if you haven’t had the chance to see/hear/meet him) you are missing out

(here’s a pic of me with the man after he shared advise on how to take my speaking and coaching to the next level

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Prior to meeting JTFoxx I also had the double pleasure of hearing from Reggie Batts who not only is a truly inspirational and global speaker but also an actor. Reggie was sharing a powerful message around personal brand, and taking action – essentially being awesome. At one point he shared a piece around the Laws of Attraction and how for attraction to really work it requires action.

If you’ve been awake at all, you will by now have heard of the Law of Attraction

I wanted to put in a few quotes to explain the Laws of Attraction and although I have a number that I have collected over the years I always look to promote others so thought I would share the top 10 quotes on law of attraction by Law of Attraction

Laws of attraction have a really cool site which provides visualisation tools, Blogs, Exercises and a whole host more – go check it out!!!

Law Of Attraction Quote #1

“All that we are is a result of what we have thought.”
~Buddha

Law Of Attraction Quote #2

“Everything you want is out there waiting for you to ask. Everything you want also wants you. But you have to take action to get it.”
~Jack Canfield

Law Of Attraction Quote #3

“Keep your thoughts positive, because your thoughts become your words.
Keep your words positive, because your words become your behaviours.
Keep your behaviours positive, because your behaviours become your habits.
Keep your habits positive, because your habits become your values.
Keep your values positive, because your values become your destiny.”
~Gandhi

Law Of Attraction Quote #4

“It’s really important that you feel good. Because this feeling good is what goes out as a signal into the universe and starts to attract more of itself to you. So the more you can feel good, the more you will attract the things that help you feel good and that will keep bringing you up higher and higher.”
Joe Vitale

Law Of Attraction Quote #5

“A person is what he or she thinks about all day long.”
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Law Of Attraction Quote #6

“Your imagination is your preview of life’s coming attractions.”
~ Albert Einstein

Law Of Attraction Quote #7

“Every single second is an opportunity to change your life, because in any moment you can change the way you feel.”
~ Rhonda Byrne

Law Of Attraction Quote #8

“Whether you think you can or think you can’t, either way you are right.”
~ Henry Ford

Law Of Attraction Quote #9

“Nothing external to me has any power over me”
~ Walt Whitman

Law Of Attraction Quote #10

“Happiness is not a destination. It is a method of life.”
~ Burton Hills

Mind you the Laws of attraction are nothing new and have been around for centuries. In the Bible Proverbs 23.7 it is written “As a man thinks, so is he” however it has become more and more in the main stream in the past few years – Les Brown, Anthony Robbins, JT FOXX, Zig Ziglar, Jim Rohn, The Secret, Eric Thomas

 

This talk and point by Reggy got me thinking (great communicators always do) and which resulted in this rather impromptu post

In order for you to get what you desire you need to Attraction it

Lets break Attraction down

A

Traction

Action

Let me try and explain this. Picture a car

A car (the idea) needs traction (grip/firm ground) to be able to take action (move forward/backwards). The problem for cars is that often as they start to move forward on this bumpy/muddy unknown road of an adventure they – like life – get can and do get stuck in a rut or mud. At this time the driver usually does one of three things

Scenario 1 – The put their foot on the gas with the hope that the wheels will gain traction (as anybody who has found themselves in this situation knows it often does the reverse) leaving the wheels spinning like crazy, burning rubber and fuel like nobody’s business; in essence wasting senseless energy getting nowhere.

Scenario two – The driver that gets out of the car with the thought “this is a waste, its no use, I’m stuck and there is no way out” and walks off leaving the car floundering in the mud, slowly wasting away over time.

In life we all face getting ‘stuck in the mud’ and all react/respond to this from the position of one of the scenarios I describe above.  I have found that our response is down to three factors

(1) Number of challenging experiences we’ve experienced X (2) learning we have taken from each experience X (3) The belief systems we have developed as a result of each experience

The more challenges we face the lees flustered/surprised we should be when challenges occur. This should be strengthened when we stop and learn from each experience and we become incredibly powerful when we take the first two and make a decision to see each challenge as an experience of the moment and not a reflection of our selves. If we do that we then have the third scenario

Scenario three – The driver switches off the engine; takes a deep breath and acknowledges the problem – The car is stuck there is no traction and therefore the action I was hoping for is not occurring. The driver then gets out of the car and assesses the situation: How many wheels are stuck; how deep are they in; what other obstacles are there; what tools are available to help. They then take a moment to think of as many different options to create traction so that the car (and them) can move forward. and with this they start to take steps to get moving forward again

How do we ensure we are best prepared to take action when we apply the Law of Attraction?

  1. Try/Experience lots of things and fail often
  2. Learn from each experience/failure
  3. Get coaching to help build a midset which makes you believe you are capable and powerful

Be awesome

 

Stephan #oneproductivitycoach

 

 

 

 

 

Words of Wisdom: Destiny

Dreamers dream; Visionaries envision. Without commitment you will never start, Without a plan you will never fail; Without failure you will never fail forward and without a schedule you will never commit. Commitment is progress, and progress is your journey towards destiny

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